I Do... Again

Tonight, Dawn and I renewed our wedding vows in front of thousands of screaming fans. Well, we weren’t the only ones. The Stockton Thunder and KATM 103.3 had a promotion tonight where DJ Walker, a licensed minister, performed another mass wedding on the ice after the first period. Although most were there to renew their wedding vows, there were quite a few couple actually getting married. What did we wear for this occasion? Well, I wore the same Stockton Thunder shirts I wear to every game, along with a black suit coat. Dawn wore her Thunder shirt along with a beautiful veil. We were at a hockey game getting married (again) after all.

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page1_blog_entry284-picture-21 We watched the first period on TV in the large banquet room and then made our way out on to the ice. With a fight in the first couple of minutes and a 3-0 lead, the Thunder had done more than there share getting the crowd excited.

After we were re-married we went to our seats and joined the friends and family that had come out to watch us (and a hockey game).

The rest of the game did not go so well for the Thunder and we eventually lost 5-4. The Thunder remained scoreless in the second period and only scored the 4th goal on the very last second of the game.

We also tried, along with some people sitting near us, to start a wave. We never really got it going but Mike went down near the glass and got a lot of people to start doing it.

page1_blog_entry284-picture-19 Thanks to Tony, Mike, Shauna, Christian, Rachel, Emily, Makenzy, Jack, Rita, Ken, Megen, Kenny, Missy, Dad, Angela, Tom, Tom, and Justin for coming out and sharing our special night with us.

I love you Dawn!

Check out the pictures from tonight here.

Also, Ken took a video of the fight between Stockton’s Adam Huxley and Bakersfield’s Hank

Why I Love Golf

For many years I did not understand the fascination my twin brother had with golf. He’s not one of those die hard golfers but has played for a decade or so. Walking around a big course chasing that little white ball seemed like a waste of a good day. Getting that ball in that little hole from hundreds of yards away seemed next to impossible. I knew enough to know it was not an easy skill to master. Having gone out to a driving range years before I could appreciate that swinging a club and controlling where the ball went was something that did not come natural to me.

Finally, last August, when JR was out from Texas, he and I joined Mike and Shawn for my first round of golf. I stepped out on the first tee box of the executive course at Swenson Golf Course, put the ball on the tee and grabbed a club from the bag Mike had “loaned” me. Of course, it was not the right club and Mike tossed me the 7 iron. I landed my very first shot on the green! Wow! I then proceeded to take 8 putts to sink it.

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I have played a few times since then (ok, maybe more than a few times) and am really enjoying the game but I am a long, long way from being good. I love data and numbers and this new hobby gives me plenty of data to think about. At the rate I’m going I have some time before I start playing par golf.

Why do I love golf?

Golf is good exercise. It’s not a rigorous work out but playing the big course without a cart means more than 5 miles of walking, with a golf bag on my back.

There is no subjectivity. I either hit the ball where I wanted to or I didn’t. I either made it in 5 strokes or 9. When we actually keep score I know exactly where I ended, and how far I am from my goal. Data doesn’t lie.

There is great tradition in golf. My brother Mike has taught me the game by focusing on the rules and traditions first. He told me I can work on my approach, stance, grip and swing later - first I had to learn the social graces of the game. I’ve learned not to walk ahead of others in my group, shut up when someone’s taking their shot and never walk on someone’s line on the green.

Golf is a social sport. Like cycling, golf can be played alone but is better with good friends and family. Also, like cycling, I enjoy the game a lot more when I focus on what I’m doing and with whom I’m doing it. Plus, since I’ll never get Mike on a bicycle, it’s a good chance to spend a half-day with him.

Now, after six months, I no longer have to ask Mike or Shawn which club I should be using as I approach my next shot. That alone gives me a great sense of accomplishment. Now I must work on my short game.

Hit ‘em long.

Hit ‘em straight!

There Are Jobs Out There

This is dedicated to all of my friends and former colleagues who have recently been given lay off notices. They are some wickedly talented people and I wish them all the best. On the US jobs front, this has been an ugly week, and it's only Tuesday.  So, here are three things I believe to be true:

1. Unemployment is high. 2. The economy is in the the tank. 3. There are jobs out there!

Yesterday, 7 companies announced a total of 71,400 job cuts.  Today, another 11,500 were lost.  With over 218,000 announced layoffs since January 1 this is shaping up to be a very tough year.  In the financial services industry alone, there have been over 230,000 jobs lost since November 2008.

The Bureau of Labor Statistics reported today that the national unemployment rate rose from 6.8 to 7.2 percent. California had the highest increase (9.3 percent in December) while Michigan had the highest overall (10.6 percent).

I could have become one of those unemployed.

In September of last year, the bank I worked for failed, was taken over by the US government and then sold off to a competitor. Many of my friends and colleagues there told me they were nervous because they hadn't updated their resume in years.  Some did not remember how they got this job and felt as if they were not well equipped to get a job in today's market.  At this company, I had the honor of working with some very bright and strong people.  Even some of the most talented professionals I knew were more than a little underprepared.  Hundreds of people were registering forLinkedIn for the first time, even those that were against it when times were good.

Because I was prepared, I quickly found a new job.

One week after I started that new job, 1,500 of my former colleagues were handed lay off notices.

Going through this solidified my long-held belief that preparation is key to success in a job search.

Regardless of your current employment status, there are things you can do help prepare you in your career search now and in the future. To summarize something Mike Auzenne from Manager Tools has said; the time to search for batteries for the flashlight is not at the moment when the power goes out.  Preparing for a career search is rarely taught and does not come natural to us flawed humans. Don't wait until you have to find a job to figure out how you'll find a job.

In his podcast, How I Got My Job, Daniel Johnson, Jr. interviews people about the steps they followed to get their current or past job. Across all of the interviews, there are a myriad of different things people did to land their job.  One thing is clear, though, they didn't wake up in the morning, open their front door and find that job waiting on the porch for them.  Different people have different circumstances but it seems the old adage applies to job seeking - Luck is where opportunity meets preparation.

In another resource, Career Opportunities, a blog and podcast by Douglas E. Welch he offers practical tips to improve your career and your search. Douglas’s work shows that there is great value in always working to “sharpen the saw”.

Over the last couple of months I have changed careers and have seen a number of friends and former colleagues do the same.  Of course, the job market is tightening but there are still jobs to be had.  Now, more than ever, is the time to differentiate yourself from the rest of the pack.

Through the years, here are some of the things I've learned that have help me.

It's all about the people.

Build meaningful professional relationships.  When I hear "network" used as a verb I think of an IT guy pulling cable and connecting computers.  Build meaningful professional relationships, don't waste your time "networking".

Too many people ignore the value of professional relationships until they really need help.  Building meaning relationships is like saving for retirement.  Don't decide you need to start contributing to your 401k a month before you plan on retiring, unless you want to be broke.  Likewise, don't think that taking someone's business card means that person owes you a favor (or a job).  Meet people.  If you only know people you work with, look for opportunities to meet and interact with people outside your company, in your industry or in your same geographical area.  Relationships, like your retirement, take time to grow and foster.  Always ask, "What value can I offer someone" before you expect others to deliver value to you.

Know what's out there.

My first paying job was as an Advertising Clerk for Catalyst Personnel.  At the ripe age of 12, I was responsible for clipping help-wanted advertisements for my Aunt Kelly's staffing company.  I was paid $1 for each of her ads I clipped, taped to a sheet of binder paper and placed in a binder along with the date and name of the publication.  She only ran ads on Wednesdays and Sundays and would have anywhere from 5 to 25 openings advertised.  I had to scan each column to look for her business name.

Aunt Kelly taught me a valuable lesson.  She taught me that reading help-wanted ads every week was better than reading the business section in the local newspaper.  I continued to read local help-wanted ads until just a couple of years ago.  After more than twenty years of reading the classified section I had a pretty good idea who was hiring and when.  As I built my professional network I began to ask people in those companies who was hired and where they came from.  When that person left the company or moved to another position the ad would pop back in the newspaper and the cycle began anew.

Even though I am very happy in my new job and have no desire to leave, I still spend a little time every other week or so looking to see what jobs are out there. Well, believe it or not, sometimes I learn that a company is hiring because of a story in the local paper.  I still scan Monster, HotJobs and even my local paper.  I have also found value in having a premium membership at TheLadders.  Over the last few years I have also developed relationships with a handful of very talented recruiters.  I make referrals when I can and always have "my ear on the street".

This step, looking when you don't need to be, seems to be the most forgotten.  For many, it might be the feeling of guilt that prevents someone from looking but realize that I suggest looking, not necessarily applying.  Simply knowing what companies are hiring in your area is an advantage over having no idea.

If you are wonderfully happy and successful in your current position, congratulations!  Still, you need to look out in the market and see what else is out there. Don't wait until you're unemployed to find out who's hiring in your town, your field or your industry.

Learn how to prepare for the search, interview and offer.

Just like get-rich quick books clutter the shelves at Borders, there is no shortage of how to interview resources out there.  Some claim to give you all the right answers and land that perfect job.  Preparation is more than trying to figure out the secret questions the interviewer might ask.

Manager Tools has a series of podcasts and resources that teach, step-by-step, how to become a more effective job-seeker, from your resume and cover letter, working with recruiters, interview preparation and even how to accept an offer.

I was raised by a Certified Employment Specialist who had a phenomenal career as a resume writer and employment consultant.  My Mother spent decades learning the craft of interviewing and job placement.  With thousands of clients all over the world my Mother was considered an expert by many.  When most kids were playing baseball or learning to play a musical instrument (that they would grow up hating to play and then regretting they didn't stick with) I was learning how to write a cover letter, how to follow up after an interview and how to get a job!

Having said that, I still say that there is no resource as good as Manager Tools.  Their Interviewing Series truly is the best definitive resource out there to make your search more effective.  It will take work on your part.  It is not, after-all, a magic cure-all pill.  Invest the time to go through all of it and you'll find you're getting more interviews and more offers!

Often, job seekers apply the same logic that got them their very first job throughout the rest of their career. That is clearly a big risk. Preparation is vital. Build strong professional relationships. Know what’s out there. Learn about the process.

Don’t get caught up in the negative press. There actually are jobs available right now. Finding your next job, especially in this market, might prove tough. You’ll need to work hard at it and that hard work starts with preparation.

Stay positive, keep looking, never stop looking.

Hello To The New Mr. President

Today, as we’ve done in America many times before over the past 300 years, we ushered in a new President. The peaceful transition of power is an important piece to the government of our nation. Perhaps it was the hype over the new administration or the prevalence of coverage on the internet but I don’t ever remember following past Presidential inaugurations as closely as I did this one. It was a very interesting day and I don’t mind admitting that I totally got caught up in the spectacle of it all. Besides the actual event, I really enjoyed learning about the traditions associated with the inauguration. Regardless of your political affiliation or opinion, I hope you took the time to observe the changing of the guard today.

Steve Jobs - My Opinion

Steve Jobs's (temporary, perhaps) absence from Apple, Inc. will be just a blip on the radar. In an e-mail to Apple employees, Steve Jobs announced he would be taking a medical leave from the company until June.  Saying that his “ health-related issues are more complex” than he originally thought. He told employees that Tim Cook would lead the organization during his leave and that he looked forward to seeing them again “this summer”.

Rumors about his declining health have been flying around as furiously as iPhones off store shelves.  Ever since it was announced that he had pancreatic cancer in 2004, we have heard from analysts, critics and bloggers that have predicted the end of Apple’s market dominance if Steve Jobs were to depart.

When Apple announced that 2009's Macworld would be it's last and that Steve Jobs would not be delivering the keynote the blogosphere erupted in a guessing game about the CEO's health.

I agree with the notion that there is no company in America, likely in the world, who's identity is as closely identified with it's CEO as Apple.  I also believe that Steve Jobs has been the driving force behind Apple's successful product offering.  And even though I do believe there is a cult-like following of the all-things-i-maker (to steal a phrase oft used by Ken Ray) I believe that happened because they filled a need.  As my college economics professor often said, "it is better to have demand first, then supply."  Apple didn't create the iPod and hypnotize millions of people into thinking they wanted one.  Millions of people wanted something better than what the market was offering. Apple filled the need better than anyone.  Sure, Steve Jobs had a great deal to do with revolutionizing the music industry but he had some help.

Apple has become much bigger than just Steve Jobs.  To say that he is the lifeblood of the company is to take away a great deal of credit from all of the talent that exists within the rest of the company.

As a self-professed Apple fan-boy, it is a little scary to imagine Apple without Steve Jobs (I have only been an Apple fan since after Steve Jobs’s return).  As an Apple investor I can't help but think logically about this.  Apple has remarkable design, distribution, strong financials and from an outsider's viewpoint, a very capable executive staff.  Because it is Apple, it can be easy to forget that it is a for-profit, publicly held company and I trust that it will continue to drive innovation in the marketplace and the opportunity for financial return to shareholders for years to come.

Separating the health concern from the rest of the issue - I think this is a positive change.  Steve Jobs said he will still be involved in strategy level decisions but allowing Tim Cook to run the organization will prove that exciting new things can still happen at Apple, even if Steve Jobs is only in the background. Perhaps this is test for Apple, a chance to show us, the Mac community, that the company is strong enough to survive and grow with someone else steering the ship.

As for the call from investors demanding to know more details about the CEO’s health, I don’t need to know details. I just need to be re-assured that the company has a plan to succeed without him. I am an investor in Apple, Inc. the company, not the leader alone. Sure, he’s integral to Apple, but again, he is not Apple. I did not invest in the Steve Jobs index fund. If he was the one that built the products and personally sold each of them than I might agree and demand his medical record.

Get well, Mr. Jobs.  I hope you are afforded the peace and quiet you need to get better.  At the end of the day, it's your well being we should all hope for.

And maybe Flash on the iPhone.